Milestones

Dear Friends,

“These stones will stand as a memorial among the people of Israel forever.”
— Joshua 4:7

On May 23rd, Cathy and I will celebrate 35 years of marriage — which to us is barely believable! Lately, we have found ourselves sharing again with our adult children the story of how we met at a ball in Central London…fell in love over a hospital bed in Chamonix, France, got married in Sydney at St. Andrew’s Cathedral, and because of Cathy’s mother Georgie, had our wedding reception at the spectacular Sydney Opera House on the shores of Sydney Harbor. So many amazing memories; but for us there are also some pretty significant spiritual milestones in our journey too that are worth remembering.

Whether you are single or married, we can all commemorate significant events in our relationships in which God has proven faithful. As our lives are intertwined with His, we are caught up in a much bigger story, a story by which God shows us, over and over again, how faithful he is. Whether we understand it or not, ‘God works together with those who love him to bring about what is good.’ Romans 8:28

What are some things you do to mark the spiritual milestones in your life and or marriage? Here are some good questions to ask over coffee with a friend, or date night with your partner.

What has been one of the most positive, life-changing events in my life?
What experiences in friendship/relationship/marriage have drawn us closer to God and to each other?
How can we commemorate significant spiritual milestones in our friendship and/or marriage? Remember when…

Along the marital journey, we will experience spiritual landmarks. Whether they are born from joyous events or times of sorrow, these milestones are to be remembered. Just as Joshua used stones as a memorial to the miracle of the Israelites crossing the Jordan River, we can commemorate significant events in which God has proven faithful to us.
For example — we might throw a party, plant a tree, return to the location of an event, or, as we always do…eat cake! Recalling God’s goodness in the past will help encourage and strengthen us, so that we can continue to hold tightly to God, to our spouse, to our friends and family as we face the challenges of today.

With love and appreciation for your friendship,

Derek & Cathy

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